I began my interest in Natural Medicine alternatives when my son was very small and began to develop allergies. I had many assists on the path from alternative practitioners and from other like minded mothers. I wanted to be able to reach for something when I noticed something coming on, not wait for a full blown ear infection or intense suffering due to allergies.
I found a great book, Natural Medicine for Children by Julian Scott, Ph.D. that broadened my world view. In it he gives multiple choices for each “dis-ease”, massage, flower remedies, herbs, homeopathy. When my daughter came along I expected that I was prepared, but alas she was a different person, with different issues and I had more to learn.
I had always had an interest in herbs, but didn’t know all the possible forms they came in. The ease of putting the flower remedies in juice or water and, for me, drops under my tongue was very appealing. At the same time I was studying yoga and aromatherapy and I found placing essential oils very diluted in the bath or diffusing into the room very helpful. But sometimes they would overpower my children.
As I taught pregnant and nursing women and heard their concerns I steered them towards the book Natural Medicine and encouraged their use of five flower formula/rescue remedy (same essence, different manufacturer’s). I found that this was easy for them to remember and took care of many issues. (Truth be told the more we panic about a situation the worse it gets, so when we mellow from using five flower formula the problem mellows or sometimes goes away!!!)
Students in my yoga classes would leave feeling good and come back with the same issue. I had already been studying flower essences for my own benefit and I began to wonder if the essences could assist them (I became a certified flower essence practitioner by Flower Essence Services in 2004). I had a student who got adjusted every week, took my class every week, but still her pubic bone would go out. I invited her to have a flower remedy session. After we worked with the essences she felt much better and realized that she had an underlying fear that was in her way. She took the bottle of essences home and her body stay aligned and her birthing experience was more peaceful.
When five flower/rescue remedy was not working for a particular baby/child I would flash on a particular remedy. One of the most helpful is one for separation anxiety that I had read about a dad creating for his child. I have had a few parents use this and find that this has really helped.